Sneating: An Old Dating Trick With A New Twist

Now, I’m all for subverting the rules our culture has placed on dating and relationships — many of which tend to be restrictive, especially for women — but if you’re going to abide by the rules, you can’t complain when they don’t work in your favor. Buying food for someone does not mean that they owe you a second date, sex, or anything else, unless they specifically said, “I will pay you back.” So maybe the person who said yes to the date isn’t convinced that there will be a date number 2, but that risk is inherent in any first date.